Be proactive, put yourself out there, let him know that your available, How can we do these things in a way that doesn't make us seem desperate. How can we be pursued? Well lady's listen up. Its not your job! its HIS. I feel as though we have let men get off the easy way. Men no longer have to knock on your door, now they shoot you a text message: I'm here lets go!! oh and he might through in a :) just so you don't get the idea that he wont wait for you. Men today will never have to sit through those awkward questions like where you going to be, what time will you be back and you know that if he says 10:00 pm your father expects you to be early! Then there's my all time favourite, What are your intentions with my daughter? As if any man has ever said to hurt her, but the question does make the prospective guy ask himself why?
I know how old fashion I sound, but look at how the divorcee is increasing. Marriage is no longer a life time commitment, but rather something we can walk away from when it gets hard, or we get bored. We live in a society where common law marriage is becoming more popular because you don't have to commit, and waiting until marriage to have sex is out dated.
If a man has to work at winning over your heart he is more likely to put in the effort and fight for you. I love the quote from Fireproof when Michael says: When a man is trying to win the heart of a woman, he studies he.r He learns her likes, dislikes, habits and hobbies. But after he wins her heart and marries her, he often stops learning about her. If the amount he studied her before marriage was equal to a high school degree, he should continue to learn about her until he gains a Collage degree, a Masters degree and ultimately a Doctorate degree. it is a lifelong journey that draws his heart ever closer to hers.
Psalm 27:14- Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!
Don't settle for anything less that what God desires for you!
My prayer is that you would see yourself as the beautiful treasure you are, and just like treasure hide your love away and wait
Blessings Katelyn
I know how old fashion I sound, but look at how the divorcee is increasing. Marriage is no longer a life time commitment, but rather something we can walk away from when it gets hard, or we get bored. We live in a society where common law marriage is becoming more popular because you don't have to commit, and waiting until marriage to have sex is out dated.
If a man has to work at winning over your heart he is more likely to put in the effort and fight for you. I love the quote from Fireproof when Michael says: When a man is trying to win the heart of a woman, he studies he.r He learns her likes, dislikes, habits and hobbies. But after he wins her heart and marries her, he often stops learning about her. If the amount he studied her before marriage was equal to a high school degree, he should continue to learn about her until he gains a Collage degree, a Masters degree and ultimately a Doctorate degree. it is a lifelong journey that draws his heart ever closer to hers.
Psalm 27:14- Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!
Don't settle for anything less that what God desires for you!
My prayer is that you would see yourself as the beautiful treasure you are, and just like treasure hide your love away and wait
Blessings Katelyn